They are helping the men and women—especially the women—fulfill the primary social responsibility of their community: to get married.For the ultra-Orthodox, religious restrictions against the “mingling” of genders prevent singles from taking advantage of contemporary coupling opportunities. Marital aspirants meet almost exclusively through the intercession of like this group in Borough Park.These women, professional dismiss their unmarried charges after the interviews, then huddle together in a dark room lined with ancient religious texts.Speaking in a mixture of English, Yiddish, and Hebrew, they rifle through their notes, searching for matches.For Orthodox Jews it's forbidden to even shake your boyfriends hand. What if you could never kiss him, hug him or dance with him? Some Jews won't even take a seat on the subway next to someone of the opposite gender. Think of it as an attempt to avoid any possible slippery slopes. Orthodox Jews have varying views about how far the rules of not touching should go.After the match has been proposed, the prospective partners meet a number of times to gain a sense of whether they are right for one another.
According to the Talmud (Avodah Zarah 2b), G-d offered the Torah to all the nations of the earth, and the Jews were the only ones who accepted it.
middle-aged women gather in the basement office of a brick building in Brooklyn’s Borough Park neighborhood to assure the survival of ultra-Orthodox Judaism.
Black-hatted men and “modestly” dressed women come to them, some young, others less so, all single.
The Internet has brought a mini-revolution to the world of Jewish relationships.
These online dating sites are making romantic Jewish matches every day.